Wait, Shay, catch me up. Is this for me?

I feel like all of this can be true simultaneous.

No one gets to thumb up/down how someone should feel about anything. Agreed.

Also, as a broader fam chat, things will be revisited. Separate from the moment, I mean. Candor is always on the table, and feedback is vital.

I'll back a play, certainly - but when we get home, I'll also nudge you with a "so, about that . . ." side note.