That’s me — I do a lot of pillow screaming.

FWIW, the only reason I was able to put this into words was through the exchanges I had not with my Black friends — odd as it sounds, we don’t have a “yeah right” discussion about this — but my White ones. Well, that’s not exactly right. It’s more like a big coffee klatch via social media. Point here is that you don’t know that you aren’t helping.

Anyway, take care. And thank you.